Respite At Sea

Kyle and Tilly 2023 Reviews

December 2023 BVI Charter

Kyle and Tilly,
Thank you, we could not have asked for a more beautiful week! It was such a joy sailing with you. Everything was perfect from the boat and amenities, the amazing meals and presentations, desserts, table decor, amd wine pairings, the boat drinks, and cocktails. Every suggestion you made from coves to stay in at night, hikes, excursions to Virgin Gorda, Saba Rock, Soggy Dollar was incredibly fun. We are also thankful for you helping us gather with our friends onboard another boat! You also made our diving experience amazing!
We especially enjoyed you! You are an amazing crew, team and couple. Playing cards, star gazing with music and getting to know you is a special memory. We wish you joy and the best for the future.

With many thanks,
Megan, Rick, Elias, Alaina


Aboard Sweet Pea on the 10 Jun 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were awesome. This was my favorite trip yet.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 20 May 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were outstanding! We cannot say enough about how attentive they were and the consistently high quality service they provided throughout our trip aboard the Sweet Pea.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 20 May 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.

Comment: We had a wonderful time. Kyle and Tilly are very passionate about their jobs and it shows!! The food was delicious, the service the best. Tilly is super funny, I envy her energy!!! Kyle easy going and always ready to accomodate any guest with a request. It is a beautiful boat and kept very organized and clean!! It was a fun, relaxed trip!!! Can’t wait to return!!! Love the base managers, Mignon and Chandre!!!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 22 Apr 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly went above and beyond to make this a fun vacation. The food was excellent, and Tilly was an amazing chef. I have celiac disease, and she was very careful to make sure I had a gluten free meal every time. I never felt like everyone else was getting the good food, and I wasn't. The boat was SUPER clean,
and they kept it that way all week. Thanks guys for a wonderful week!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 22 Apr 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were excellent! Great attention to detail and wonderful interactions with the guests. Tilly went over the top with her ability to meet everyone's dietary needs. Thanks to both for a great week. PS- This boat was in great condition and very clean.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 22 Apr 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle & Tilly were best crew we've had. Very focused on customers' needs.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 01 Apr 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly provided a wonderful experience for us. They were very fun and accommodating, along with being extremely knowledgeable about everything they were doing. Wanting to teach us more about where we were and making sure we got the most out of every minute.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 18 Mar 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were ever so accommodating, fun and pleasant to be around. They met our every request and did much for us that we did not ask for. Would love to sail with them again. They were delightful and worked so well together. I've been on several sailing trips and they rate right there at the top of any captain and mate we've had.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 11 Mar 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: What a great trip!! My first catamaran and adventure with TRADEWINDS. It exceeded my expectations. The sights were amazing but the crew made it an outstanding week! So thankful we had Kyle,
Tilly and Johann taking care of us for the week. A great team that clearly loves sharing their home, Sweet Pea, and passion for all sights and experiences the BVI’s have to offer. The service, food and cocktails were exceptional! Could not have asked for anything better!! Thank you for a week I will never forget and will always appreciate!!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 11 Mar 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly did an excellent job. Could not ask for better.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 11 Mar 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Our crew was outstanding! Captain Kyle and First Mate Tilly make an amazing team and should be a model for Tradewinds. TW should do everything they can to keep such a wonderful couple happy and prospering in their careers. Kyle is such a skillful captain, keeps the boat in the very best shape that he can.. Kyle and Tilly take such pride in keeping the TW boat in as tip top shape as they possibly can themselves. It is clean, organized and neat and the whole crew pitches in to keep it that way. Tilly’s skills in delivering delicious and beautifully presented food is top notch! She and Kyle are skilled in both their professional duties and in delivering outstanding customer experiences. Could not ask for a better crew!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 18 Feb 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were absolutely wonderful. All of our needs were met beyond expectations. All and all have zero complaints. Best crew ever!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 18 Feb 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: First time with Tradewinds and the entire trip was perfect. We were guests of the owner of S/Y Sweet Pea, and had a wonderful time with our group. I can’t say enough nice things about the crew Tilly and Kyle. Both of them exceeded our expectations at every turn. You can tell they genuinely love what they are doing. Only problem was that I gained weight because of the great food Tilly made us. So good!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 04 Feb 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Our crew of Kyle & Tilley were the best yet and extremely supportive of our needs. They provided excellent ‘morning briefings’ and were constantly attentive.

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 04 Feb 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were great hosts to us. We really enjoyed the trip.
Aboard Sweet Pea on the 28 Jan 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.

Comment: Top Notch warm and welcoming service!! Kyle and Tilly made sure our family had the Trip of a Lifetime!! Cannot say enough about how special Kyle and Tilly were - we are going to miss them forever!!!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 28 Jan 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: A trip of a lifetime! Kyle & Tilly provided us with a MAGICAL experience!

Aboard Sweet Pea on the 28 Jan 2023 in BVI with Kyle and Tilly.
Comment: Kyle and Tilly were AWESOME!! Everything was so much fun and the best experience.

March 2025 BVI Charter

We came into this trip very excited and with high expectations - and they were all exceeded and then some! The BVI delivered with stunning scenery, wonderful weather, and friendly people. But the real "X-Factor" are Rubrio and Liza. You will not find more competent or caring hosts on a boat! They made this the trip of a lifetime. Liza's meals were amazing, and dining on the fly bridge was a favorite. Rubrio made sure we had the best anchorages and the most fun possible. We are sad to leave but can't wait to come back! Thank you so much.

Thank you both for all the amazing food and fun adventures!
The Chencus Family

March 2025 BVI Charter

Thanks for an amazing experience for our family's first sailing trip in the BVI! You are both fantastic hosts - always assuring that we are comfortable, having fun, and well fed with amazing food! Our kids experienced a trip of a lifetime complete with an introduction to the Sea Bob. Thank you, thank you for a fantastic version!

Love the BVI! Loved the introduction to the Sea Bob. Thanks for a comfortable vacation.

I loved playing chess. After this trip I want a Sea Bob.

Amazing adventures and sourdough! Thank you!
The Shoreman Family

March 2025 BVI Charter

We had a wonderful time with Liza and Rubrio as we explored BVI. The food and conversations were so nice as we went from place to place. We enjoyed our time so much!
D

This was an incredible experience that will not be forgotten! Pictures, activities, sailing, meals, and friendships were all included. Sitting on the bow while it rained was exhilarating. Our captain/1st mate/chef - couldn't have asked for a more experienced couple - from sharing where to visit, what island had history and fun activities. Meals were all freshly prepared and plentiful. I could go on and on and on.
Can't say enough good things about our trip with good friends and crew. Best time ever. Hope to cruise again with these two, who managed the entire trip. Love to them both. Will think of you both many times over as we relive the fun with pictures and laughter.
All the best, as always,
E

GREAT WEEK! You made our time the European way! After many sailing in BVI, Rubrio & Liza bring on the best of it with smiles, grace & perfection. Thank you for a great time AND we will see you in Madeira Sept 2026!

February 2025 BVI Charter

I cannot imagine a better experience, a better boat, or a better crew! Captain Rubrio was amazing- very knowledaebale, very experienced, and always making sure everyone was happy, comfortable, and safe. In complete command of the ship at all times!. Liza was a wonderful compliment to Rubrio, and prepared world class meals every day. The boat was a pleasure to be on, and the crew was an absolute pleasure to be with".

What a GREAT trip! Well done Rubrio and Liza!!!

-The Feldman Family

February 2025 BVI Charter

Captain Rubrio & Liza - what a wonderful week! You guys are amazing and not only was it a pleasure to share our vacation with you both, but an honor to meet you as well. I have never sailed before but cannot imagine a more knowledgeable and capable captain than you, Rubrio. Your complete command of everything, all the time, was fascinating to watch and thoroughly enjoyable to experience. Speaking of thoroughly enjoyable, we could not have asked for, and certainly did not expect, a chef as talented as Liza! Everything you prepared was meticulously done, and tasted like the offerings at a 5 star restaurant! Perfecto!
Stay well, stay safe, and stay happy.
Feldman Family

You two are the best. You exceeded all expectations of my vision of a catamaran cruise. I am so glad to have crossed paths with you both.
Best always, R


Liza & Rubrio,
My friend has said it all. I strongly second all of his comments.
I have been on a number of chartered and private yachts. I can honestly say that the two of you have made this unquestionably the best I have ever had. The service, food, and camaraderie was simply unsurpassed. The two of you made our trip absolutely perfect!!
Thank you both for a wonderful week. I hope our paths cross again.
T&S


Captain Rubrio & Liza. Where to begin to express the incredible experience this week has been? Captain, your sailing and island knowledge is beyond. We always felt safe and appreciate you sharing your sailing expertise as well as the best places to stay and visit during our trip. Liza, your food was amazing. You served us wonderful meals that were better than restaurants we frequent. 5 stars!
Together the two of you made us feel welcome, served us with grace and exceeded our expectations. We have and will hold dear our memories from our week with you on Respite at Sea.
We wish you much happiness and safe travels.
The Baileys

January 2025 BVI Charter

January 14-19, 2025
Wow!!! We had an amazing time aboard Respite at Sea, a beautiful boat. We can't say enough about Liza & Rubrio. They made our trip so enjoyable, so very very fun! Finding the perfect wave for my husband and the perfect swim beach for me. The food was fabulous - the "bread", best we've ever had (not kidding). We truly enjoyed their company.
Until we meet again and we will.
Love & God bless,
S & P

January 2025 BVI Charter

Liza and Rubrio,
I don't even know what to write - it seems difficult to find words to express our appreciation for such an incredible time with fantastic people. Both of you are so generous with your time and gifts! You have given us incredible memories that we will talk about and remember fondly forever.
-Eric and Krystal

You guys have made my birthday so special and unforgettable - one that I'll never forget! You've been so kind and generous, along with sparking a great interest is Portuguese water dogs.
Thank you so so much
-Brooklyn

New Years's Eve 2024 BVI Charter

We so enjoyed our time aboard SV Respite At Sea. The vessel has been lovingly maintained and had all the amenities we could ask for. Rubrio is a phenomenal Captain- knowledgable, skilled and well practiced at his profession. Liza is a fabulous chef and hostess. Our bellies were with delicious meals daily. We hope to be back to the BVI again and wouldn't hesitate to book another fabulous journey with Rubrio and Liza. Thank you for the amazing memories.
-The Harman Family

Christmas 2024 BVI Charter

Liza and Rubrio,
What a trip. Everything exceeded our expectations. The two of you are an amazing team that provided everything we desired. Unbelievable food - great toys- and lovely atmosphere all tailored to what we like. We thank you! All the best to you.
The Joiners

December 2024 BVI Charter

From the moment we stepped aboard Rubrio and Liza made us feel welcomed and at home. They received us warmly and had a lovely cheese platter with some of our favorites and a Happy Anniversary banner to start off our celebration.

Rubrio is an excellent captain. We could tell he is very skilled and we always felt safe. He paid special attention to what we shared in the preference form and brought us to some of the most beautiful and private spots that he knew we would enjoy. We were able to hike a few times, go shelling on several beautiful and private beaches where ours were the only footsteps. We paddle boarded, snorkeled, played with the SeaBobs and just enjoyed lounging behind the boat on the float. He showed us all the key spots in the BVI and adjusted the itinerary to come back to The Baths when the area would be more calm. He chose the best mooring and anchoring spots each day and evening and made sure we were in the most amazing, picturesque spot for our special romantic anniversary dinner.

He and chef Liza share our passion for high quality and healthy foods and truly understood our preferred dining style. Rubrio’s home made sourdough was one of the highlights of the trip… it is so delicious, healthy and waking up to the smell of freshly baked bread was a real treat.

Chef Liza never ceased to impress us with her creativity and exceptionally delicious dishes. Each meal was full of flavor, perfectly balanced and beautifully presented. Her plating style is Michelin level and we had some of the most delicious dishes on this trip with quality and flavors rivaling some of the best restaurants we’ve visited throughout Europe.

She carefully curated the menu each day based on our specific preferences and adapted and adjusted as she learned new things about us in conversation. For example, when Rubrio overheard us comment on how tasty the fresh guava was at breakfast, she adapted one of the desserts to include the guava, and in conversation Brian mentioned how he loved beef tartar but only orders it in Europe and at very fine restaurants, and Liza added a beef tartar course as a surprise for our anniversary dinner that was the best tasting tartar either of us ever had… we could go on about the meals from breakfast to dinner each day… one as good or better than another… we considered dining ashore but knew we’d only be disappointed.

Rubrio came up with new and delicious mocktails for us each day and manned the grill one night for a fabulous steak and grilled veggie dinner. We really appreciated Rubrio and Liza’s teamwork and the care and passion they put into providing us with so many special experiences and memories during our time aboard Respite At Sea. We only wish we had chartered for longer.

-Melanie

December 2024 BVI Charter

Dear Liza and Rubrio,
Thank you for a wonderful, peaceful time on the sea, You've made our 19th year anniversary memorable. You made us feel loved and special, and at home. We've been on several boats, but you both as a team stood out to us. We didn't know that captain Sourdough meant that the bread was freshly baked on the vessel. This is special! Also Liza is in an amazing chef who is masterful and creative, and gives attention to detail to her various style of cuisine. And it was tasty!!
This was by far the best anniversary ever. Thank you for a wonderful romantic time.
Kindly,
Brian and Melanie

November 2024 BVI Charter

What a wonderful trip! Complete with SCUBA, snorkeling, beach walking, sailing and amazing food. We treasure our time on Respite At Sea with you, Liza and Rubrio, thank you for all the memories. Until next time! May your season be incredible with wonderful charters.
-Corinne and Bill

November 2024 BVI Charter

What a special and incredible "Respite At Sea." Liza is an amazing chef and Rubrio a charming and knowledgable captain. I felt like James Bond on the sea bobs and loved all the beach adventures! Truly a trip of a lifetime with dear and special friends. So blessed to be part of this trip to the BVI.
-Erin

Awesome retirement trip with my awesome friends!! Rubrio and Liza are the best!! Incredible food beyond expectations-thanks Liza! Rubrio's experience made the best of every situation. We really hope to sail with them again.
-Margaret and Bob

May 2024 BVI Charter

Sam and Zina were simply the best!!! We have vacationed many places but truly nothing compares to the friendship, care, expertise, food and love that we received from them. Zinas cooking was absolutely 5 star.!!! Sam was a guide, a friend, a bartender- a man of all trades!!! If you are even considering this wonderful trip - just do it!!! They are the best! We will return and won’t want one thing different!! Well.. except perhaps an extended stay. 💕💕💕💕

This boat is magnificent!!. It is so clear that the owner only chooses the best of everything. Sam and Zina lovingly care for the boat and for the passengers. The owner shared his wonderful wine. Everything was absolute perfection!!

- Stacey

April 2024 BVI Charter

Not enough stars to give to our crew. Sam and Zina were the BEST!
One of the best vacations we have had; enjoyed every minute.
Every meal planned by Zina was too good to miss; she took amazing care of us.
Sam kept us laughing and entertained, and his attention to details kept us feeling safe.
Hope to come back soon and will definitely look for Sam and Zina's charter.

- Kathy

Every aspect of this trip exceeded expectations! The Respite at Sea was beautiful and spacious - it was immaculately clean and organized at all times. The most amazing aspect of the trip was our hosts/captain/chef/first mate, Sam and Zina! They were both gracious, kind, knowledgeable, attentive, FUN hosts! They were both patient and accommodating with all our needs and requests – from things we wanted to do, places we wanted to go, what we wanted to drink, what we wanted to eat. They planned and executed everything and anything that we asked! The food Zina prepared was beautiful AND delicious - every meal was a special event! We LOVED everything about our experience, and we can’t wait to go on another adventure with Sam and Zina!

- Karen


A trip of a Lifetime and Sam and Zina made sure we were treated to a First Class Boat, First Class Captaincy and First Class Food. I would recommend Respite At Sea but only with Sam and Zina as Captain and Crew. We were allowed to sit back and relax while Sam and Zina did ALL the work and at the same time waited on us hand and foot. What a team.

- Billy


Sam and Zina were AMAZING! In addition to being great and fun people, they are wonderful at what they do. Zina is a great cook. The meals and presentation were always a highlight of the day. We knew we were always in good shape with Sam. He knew exactly what he was doing, And- he always had a smile on his face and had everything under control. Sam and Zina looked after the Respite at Sea meticulously! An incredible trip. I give Sam and Zina and Respite at Sea the highest recommendation possible!

- Daniel Clayton

March 2024 BVI Charter

We could not have asked for a better week or a better crew. The boat was very comfortable and Zina’s food was amazing! Captain Sam is not only a great captain but managed to keep two teenage boys highly entertained!

What an incredible family trip and I can’t thank you enough for being so wonderful with the boys. We will have memories to last a lifetime! Hope to see you two again. Perhaps a charter to St Martin and St Barts if we could sway you to leave the BVI’s.

Take care!

Suzy, KD, Frank & Sam

February 2024 BVI Charter

I had an amazing once-in-a-lifetime trip with Sam as captain and diving instructor, and Zina as chef extraordinaire. The food was absolutely amazing. Every meal blew me away in presentation, taste, and variety. Each day was filled with new and fun adventures. I never imagined I would learn to scuba, but Sam made the experience feel safe and doable. I’m excited to continue more diving in the future. I highly recommend Sam and Zina, your every need will be taken care of before you even know you need it.

-Becky

Our trip on the Respite at Sea could not have been better. There are so many wonderful things to say about it that I could go on for pages. The boat was beautiful. We enjoyed every inch of it. Everyone in our group absolutely loved the Seabobs as well as the paddle boards and snorkeling equipment. Our itinerary took us to gorgeous, incredible places where we explored beaches, restaurants and little towns. But the best part of our trip was definitely Sam and Zina. Sam made everything fun and each experience felt unique. He was the preeminent guide, captain and bartender. Both he and Zina were kind and funny and were attuned to our every want and need. The meals that Zina made for us were unbelievably delicious. It is not an exaggeration to say that she could be a chef in a fine restaurant. The only thing that I would change about our trip would be to make it longer!
-Sara

February 2024 BVI Charter

Our trip on Respite at Sea was literally the trip of a lifetime. Captain (and bartender) Sam and Chef Zina were phenomenal. They took such attentive and amazing care of us and the itinerary was everything we could have hoped for and more. Zina's food can’t be described….better than anything you could get at the restaurants. Still dreaming of her chicken curry. They went out of their way to make it unforgettable!
Thank you!
-The Stimsons

February 2024 BVI Charter

My husband and I recently spent 5 nights on Respite at Sea with another couple. It was fabulous! Sam and Zina are wonderful and clearly take great pride in their careers! Zina's food was fantastic as were Sam's drinks! We were able to try scuba diving with Sam and absolutely loved it. We hope to be back with our kids in the future. Thank you for such a memorable adventure!!

Maggie & Aaoron

February 2024 BVI Charter

Sam & Zina were absolutely wonderful hosts! It was our first-time charting for a week and could not have picked a crew who fit us better. Sam is a focused and safe Captain who clearly knows his boat (and, how to make fantastic cocktails). Zina is an amazing Chef whose food combinations will blow your mind. Both Sam and Zina made us all feel at home right away, we were comfortable upon first setting our bare feet on their boat. There are many boats and many crews, but only one Sam and Zina...Champions!
-The Myers

January 2024 BVI Charter

Can’t imagine a week in the BVIs being any better. The Respite at Sea was a perfect vessel for 3 couples to explore in. It’s a relatively new boat with all the “bells and whistles “. It has 3 nice bedrooms, each with bathrooms. The crew, Sam and Zina, are exceptionally accommodating and take care of every detail. Doesn’t hurt that Zina is also a world class chef. Most importantly, these two are great people who are lot of fun to be around for a week at sea!

January 2024 BVI Charter

Outstanding experience! Respite at Sea was ideal from the layout to the very comfortable seating areas and beds. The sailing was the highlight and very stable even in higher winds and some swells.
Sam and Zina deliver an amazing level of service and Sam brings good fun and humor all day long and Zina's cuisine was absolutely delicious. We highly recommend Respite at Sea and Sam/Zina.

-Rob and Chrissy

January 2024 BVI Charter

Sam and Zina made our first experience living on the water truly amazing. From Sea bobbing, paddle boarding, snorkeling, scuba diving, deep-sea fishing, wake boarding and water skiing to exploring beautiful places and lively establishments. Sam kept us as busy as we wanted to be. He introduced his love of scuba diving to our son who now can’t wait to become certified this summer. Everything was top notch! Sam and Zina’s welcoming personalities and knowledge of sailing made us feel right at home from the second we stepped on board.
Zina took the time to prepare delicious meals that we couldn’t get enough of. My husband is Pescatarian and she thoughtfully prepared all his meals including special vegan desserts just for him. Respite at Sea was the perfect home away from home with so many areas to spread out and enjoy family time. Having traveled extensively, this was one our most memorable vacations thus far. We’re looking forward to doing it again with Sam and Zina on Respite at Sea!

Sam and Zina Past Charter Review

Our family of four took a seven day Christmas Grenadines islands cruise on the JimJams catamaran with Captain Sam and crew Zina. It was a truly wonderful experience!

While the boat is very luxurious and well appointed, the real treat is the service provided by Sam and Zina. First the food: prior to our cruise we were asked about our food and beverage preferences, which we provided by email. Every meal, breakfast, lunch and dinner, contained scrumptious, healthy variety, all personally prepared by Zina, with Sam’s assistance. Fresh fish, meats prepared on the outdoor grill, and the bread and pasta were always made from scratch. Interesting and delicious appetizers, specialty drinks, and combinations of food that we had never experienced before. We HAD to ask them for their interesting and delicious meatball recipe.


Next, the service: Sam and Zina brought a youthful exuberance and energy to the sometimes difficult and challenging tasks during the Christmas winds, that was fun and inspiring to watch. Our every request was greeted with a “can do”attitude, and our expectations were usually exceeded. Sam is quite an accomplished sailor, and Zina is the perfect crew. We must also mention that the boat was kept incredibly clean and fresh.

We cannot more highly recommend an excursion with Captain Sam and Zina. We greatly look forward to our next opportunity to sail with them.
-The Strumillos

We had the privilege of sailing with Sam and Zina in SVG and they were amazing. Zina sure can cook and we loved when Sam would yell “Captains Cocktails”. We ended up buying into the Trade Winds Club just because of them. If we could request Sam and Zina every sail we would!
-The Gallaghers

These two are an awesome couple and a fantastic crew. Our family had an amazing week, Zina is a sweetheart and great chef and Sam is an excellent captain with the perfect balance of confidence and chill.
-Donna

Amazing couple and even better crew. Totally in tune to our vacation and what we wanted. They’re passionate about serving the passengers and even more passionate about their jobs!!!
-Inna

July 2023 BVI Charter

Ross and Dee
thank you both so so much for making this charter one for the Smith family history books - Roman’s first sail, first snorkel, first sea scooter, first jelly fish sting. Julian and Lawsons first dives. Lawson’s first slalom and wakeboarding. Julian’s first water skiing. Mine and Debbie’s first sailing charter with all 3 of our boys. Everything was amazing, from the dives to the treasure hunt to every DEE-licious meal. You two are such special people who make an even better team. You will forever be in our memories, hearts and family love. Thank you a thousand times over and I hope we meet again whether on land or at sea.
-the Sevilla Family

June 2023 BVI Charter

Ross and Dee
what an amazing trip in the BVI. Our first charter and hopefully not our last! Amazing food, sights, activities, sailing. Best trip ever! No words really, but thank you!

Ross and Dee
thank you so much for everything. My 40th was made unforgettable and so appreciated. Thank you, thank you, thank you, you guys really are the best!
Ross and Dee you two are wonderful! We could not have asked for a better week on board. You made every meal, drink, experience absolutely perfect!


Ross and Dee,
we can’t thank you enough for your patience and caring in helping with our mobility and difficulties. We were quickly comfortable and able to explore - and celebrate in style. Our meals were spectacular and your company was fun and appreciated. Dee I am thankful to have pictures of your creations to “up my hospitality game” at the beach house. We would love for you to visit us.

Captain Ross and Chef Dee made this week a trip to remember! We can’t thank you both enough for all the warm hospitality and adventures! The food was absolutely delicious in every way. I was amazing getting to know you both and share lots of laughs. Wishing you all the best with your upcoming charters. Thank you again.

May 2023 BVI Charter

Ross and Dee - travel has always been about the people you meet along the way. So thankful to you both for being part of the journey. Memories for a lifetime and beyond, love you both.

Dee - coming back to the boat with your cooking and energy is like coming home. Your food is love. Thank you for the best banana desert of our lives.
Ross - the excitement with which you approach our adventuring on Respite reminds us to live in the moment.

Thank you both for curating experiences that allow us to experience pure joy and happiness. We are so thankful we get to be members of the repeat guests club. These are some of the happiest days of our lives! Can’t wait for future adventures.
-the Velemirovich Family

April 2023 BVI Charter

There are not enough accolades for Ross and Dee, the very BEST time! The stay on the boat was full of laughs, great food, adventures, kindness and overall good times. Dee and Ross are examples of the best people you could ever meet. Dee is the girl you want your son to bring home, Ross is the guy you want to have your daughter show up with!!!! All the best to both of you, thank you for a wonderful trip.

WOW! I have to admit I was a bit reluctant to take this trip. A boat for 7 days?!! Well, it was an amazing week. Ross and Dee were absolutely the best hosts ever! Beautiful food, awesome snorkeling, sailing, cocktails and so much more.
-the Ehrenbergers

January 2023 BVI Charter

Thank you for an epic week aboard Respite At Sea. Tom and Hannah were amazing and welcoming. Food was excellent and enjoyed all of the islands.
Wishing you the best in life!
-Adam and Gina

Amazing Time!
Thank you for all your hardwork making our trip perfect. Thank you Tom and Hannah. See you again!
-Ron and Tina

Tom and Hannah
Thank you for an amazing charter! It's our fourth time on charter and you rank the top.
-Ron and Jeanne

New Year's 2022 BVI Charter

Tom and Hannah exemplified eveything wonderful about the BVIs- warmth, happiness, fun... The made this family trip one of the best family trips we have had anywhere in the world. It was perfect! We enjoyed so many things - the food, the sunsets, the diving and snorkeling, paddle boarding, the sea bobbing, and the relaxing!
Tom and Hannah went to all lengths to make sure we all had a perfect trip. Hannah accommodated everyone's food likes and dislikes and made some amazing meals we all loved! Tom took care of all of us on our excursions and together with Hannah planned seven memorable days for us all! We can't thank them enough.

Christmas 2022 BVI Charter

I' don't know where to start... to get to return to our beloved BVIs with the greatest Captain (Tom) and the most spectacular First Mate (Hannah) is a Christmas wish come true. From waking up to an ever changing breakfast to Scuba and Snorkeling and swimming with the biggest turtle to paddle boarding and oh my how about the sea bob! Our hearts swell with love for both of you and we look forward to a future adventure. You both inspire us to keep a smile on our faces and always look for the next adventure.

March 2022 BVI Charter

This crew is top of their game. So fun. So professional. Dee’s cooking rivals any high end restaurant we’ve ever eaten in and she delivered that level every. single. meal! Truly amazing. Ross made amazing cocktails and took us to secluded anchorages we have never seen and we loved every one. We had great sailing and we felt comfortable, pampered, safe and happy every minute we were on board. We would sail with these two anytime, anywhere. Respite herself is a beautiful and very comfortable boat. Not one complaint.
-Lisa

February 2022 BVI Charter

Chef Dee and Captain Ross,
This was our first catamaran charter sail and it was wonderful! The snorkeling, swimming, and sailboat are all amazing! First rate and top notch! However, what stands out the most were the impeccable meals, stellar service, and non stop attention to detail from both of you!! I cannot imagine a finer duo anywhere on the seas. I cannot sing your praises loud enough or long enough. You're both so sweet, accommodating and perfectionists in every way. Thank you both so much for a magnificent time and memory. Your futures are bright as you're both amazing together. We love you guys!
-Daryl and Arnie

February 2022 BVI Charter

Dee and Ross,
We can't truly express the extent of our regard for the amazing our amazing vacation and more specifically for the two of you. We feel like you guys are part of our family. Your professionalism and expertise were astounding, only exceeded by your charm and warmth! Thank you for your wonderful hospitality. We can see how much pride you take in your enterprise here on Respite at Sea. I hope the owners realize how good they have it with you as their champions! We will seek you out when we seek another trip to your paradise. In Texas we bid adieu to those we are leaving with the phrase "Happy trails to you!" Til we see you again, we can "happy waves."
With great admiration and fondness
-Skip and Suzette

January 2022 BVI Charter

My wife and I along with two other couples just got off the boat after one of our best trips ever due to the incredible experience that Dee and Ross provided.

Being in the service business I greatly appreciate the attention to detail, planning and hospitality. What we all knew was going to be one of our best trips ever was far exceeded with this past weeks amazing experience.

You have two of the most unbelievable hosts attending to every detail all while making you feel so special throughout each day.

Dee’s menu and cooking was nothing less than 5 plus Stars on every meal! Each surpassing the next.

Both their passion for what they do so well and their attentiveness to their guests is unequaled. It might be your boat, but they act as if it is theirs.

I am sure you are aware but wanted you to know. I could go on and on about our trip of a lifetime all while knowing each of us having traveled throughout the world to amazing places and exceptional service.

They are the absolute best in every way, and we look forward to hopefully being able to experience their amazing hospitality again sometime soon.

December 2021 BVI Charter

The week on The Respite was absolutely PERFECT.
Let's talk about the crew, our new lifelong friends Ross and Dee... I am really struggling to find words to capture how great these two individuals are and how much we value the experience Ross and Dee provided us. Let me do my best...

The love and passion that Dee put into each meal resulted in some of the best food we have ever had anywhere much less from a confined galley. Each meal blew our minds and was better than any restaurant we dined at during the trip and frankly most of the top restaurants anywhere in the world. I realize this sounds fabricated, but "Dee-licious" as we called her, could not be more talented or passionate about ensuring the group had top notch meals and service. Simply out of this world and we have pictures of each dish to remind us of how good we had it during our week onboard. Thank you Dee, you spoiled us for the week and we are forever grateful! Having the boat decorated for Kristina's actual Bday was incredibly thoughtful and speaks to your character as genuine and caring....

Onto Captain Ross... There is something special about someone who has a deep pride in his craft which is exactly how I would describe Ross. He ensured we saw all the key spots the BVI has to offer and made our experience magical. Ross is meticulous in all he does to ensure the experience each day beats expectations. He is very knowledgeable of the area and some of our favorite memories are sitting on the fly bridge with a Carib in hand listening to the history of the area. The passion Ross has for the boat and ensuring it's upkeep makes you believe he is the owner! Each drink poured and each dish cleared was met with a smile and a "Pleasure" from Ross that we will never forget. We will forever remember our morning map sessions with Ross where he outlined where we had been the previous day and where we were headed that day. Thank you Ross, we cannot have imagined a better Captain and now friend.

I think in summary there are a few thoughts... I considered Ross and Dee part of our crew by day 2. Seriously... we enjoyed having them part of the group and it was a treat to have them join in on all we did throughout the week. We all agreed that when Ross gets the chops to ask for Dee's hand in marriage our group will be there wherever/whenever in the world it goes down! (Sorry buddy, I had to get that in there!). The final testament to how special of a week we had was the tears my wife shed during our goodbyes...

I did my best, but I still don't think I did justice to our experience... The only other item is the Respite itself which was perfectly appointed and provisioned. We did not want for anything and were completely comfortable in the spacious rooms!
-John

July 2021 Charter

Good morning! It is hard to put into words how wonderful our vacation was. Ross and Dee are over the top! They work so well together and are so attentive. The food was incredible, and the presentation was so beautiful. Ross has some mad napkin folding skills! They were so respectful of the catamaran. You would have thought it was their personal property. The diving and snorkeling was fantastic. From the time we arrived until we reluctantly had to be dropped off they made us feel so welcome. We would definitely recommend them to friends or book another trip with them. Thank you so much for booking us with them!

Thank you for taking such great care of our family.

Dee and Ross,
Thank you for taking such great care of our family. This trip will forever more be remembered as our “favourite vacation” of all time. There wasn’t a detail missed and we noticed all of them. We can’t wait to see you again, this will not be our last. We appreciate you more than you know, Mr Greminger.

Dee and Ross,
The cure for anything is salt water.... OR a superb meal from chef Daniella OR a perfectly chartered cruise to the most beautiful bay by Captain Ross. Thank you for the trip of a lifetime. You are now friends and mates, until next time. Bon voyage, Mrs Greminger.

This experience exceeded very high expectations!

Dee and Ross,
My favourite moment was arriving on this gorgeous boat to such a warm welcome full of so much promise. Your hard work, attention to detail, easy laughter and clear knowledge were all very much appreciated. You won’t be rid of us so easily - we will be back. Thank you for a week full of incredible memories, new family games and a relaxed husband! With Gratitude, Mrs Miller.

To our new friends, Dee and Ross,
This experience exceeded very high expectations! Thank you for the celebrating my 50th with me and introducing sailing to my children. Your hard work and good cheer is exemplary, as is your patience, attention to detail and fine cuisine! I am so confident we will meet again soon, with immense gratitude, Mr Miller.

We loved every minute of our week from morning to night.

Dee & Ross, what an amazing week! Thank you so much for a great 50th birthday celebration - it was perfect. It was really hard to pick a “rose” and even think of a “thorn” for the week, everything was unforgettable. Captain Ross, thanks for finding all the wildlife, starting our Instagram careers and boating lessons. Dee, always with a beautiful, warm smile and delicious meals. If only we had a “defuse card” to stop the exploding kitten/end of the vacation. We loved every minute of our week from morning to night. We wish you all the best and hope to sail with you again some day!

Respite at Sea is a wonderful craft and we look forward to more equally splendid excursions aboard her.

Respite at Sea is a wonderful craft and we look forward to more equally splendid excursions aboard her. But only the crew could of Respite could actually overshadow the boat itself.

Captain Rosco and Dee were just simply the best hosts that we could have possibly imagined and Tyler as first mate – he typically being a captain himself, only made the situation even more incredible! Rosco made us all feel at ease immediately with his affable nature but we knew when it came to on-board safety and sailing particulars he was serious and in total control and there would be nothing for us to concern. At the same time Dee was just nothing but wonderful in spirit and magnificent at preparing the trip’s meals! Meals, snacks, drinks, coffee, teas – everything was phenomenal! And Tyler was just an all-around everything whether assisting in sailing, food preparation, handling bags and gear, diving – he was right on point and a pleasure to be around. The entire trip was there immediately if we needed them and seemingly invisible if we didn’t.

Wherever and whenever we sail in the future we will hope that this crew is available on Respite at Sea!

We had an amazing vacation!

We had an amazing vacation!

Dee and Ross could not have done one more thing for us to make it any more amazing. It was simply perfect! We all feel as though we made friends for a lifetime. They are fabulous and we loved them.

The boat is beautiful and spacious. Clean as can be. You could eat off the floors and you can tell they put so much effort into taking care of it.

The food was incredible. Dee made Gourmet meals every minute. JP (my 18 year old) actually tried new things every day and ate everything. He usually eats like a 10 year old!

Ross made delicious new cocktails every night like you get at a trendy bar.

We spent 99% of our time on the boat. We went to lovango. It was fine. We had a nice day and it was pretty, but I’m not sure it was worth the price to go and I dont think I would go back. Especially when you love the boat and crew as much as we did, you just want to spend every minute on the boat. We also went to lime out. The floating taco place. That was great. We all loved it. And the final place we went was dinghys. Fun cool beach bar. I guess they are trying to compete with soggy dollar type of bar. That was fun too. We just went for a short time for drinks.

They catered to us on every level, From meals, drinks, appetizers, water sports,(water skiing, seabobs wakeboarding, snorkeling), not to mention relaxing... my kids loved them as well. We didn’t sit still much...we actually cried when we said goodbye to our new friends. For us...the boat is important...but, the crew makes the trip. They certainly did not disappoint. We had a blast on every level.

Susan

August 2020

My name is Jennifer Blotti and I live with my family in Switzerland. I enjoy traveling a lot and I work as a family travel blogger since many years. After several sailing vacation experiences, in August 2019 we were lucky to meet Daniella and Ross who took us on a catamaran to the Cyclades Islands in Greece. We did not hesitate to contact them again this year for our trip to Croatia because they are able to give us wonderful vacations. Daniella is not only an excellent cook, she is extremely careful to make everything perfect.
Her skills in the kitchen are incredible, she can transform everything into excellent dishes, from presentation to the variety of what she offers. She is very attentive to the preferences and needs of the customer. She has delighted us with always different dishes, she has managed to enhance the local raw materials, she has always satisfied our requests.
In addition, she always knows how to involve children (our 10 year old twins) in fun activities. It's nice to see her always with a smile. We have always felt very safe in skipper Ross' hands, even in the most difficult weather situations. Ross is very precise, responsible and skilful in finding solutions to every problem in order to make the customer feel at ease and will not let you miss anything. The unique places he has made us discover have been chosen with care, he informs about everything and these are the best qualities that a skipper can have. Ross has always organised fun activities for us, so as to involve the whole family. Ross is also a sunny person who always welcomed us with a smile. Last but not least, he knows how to prepare excellent cocktails!
I believe that Daniella and Ross are a winning couple, of the highest level, able to turn your holiday into a dream. And we hope to spend our holidays with them next year too.

August 2020

We have just returned from our wonderful sailing holiday through the Cyclades Islands in Greece with our Family. Our holidays were unforgettable also thanks to the fact that the crew on board was exceptional. For this reason we would like to inform you that both the hostess Daniella Cox and the captain Ross Matthews, both assigned by your agency, have worked with extreme professionalism and enthusiasm, taking care to fulfill all our requests. Daniella has a particular talent for cooking, her dishes have proved beyond our expectations, always presented and served with care and love. Ross has always been careful not only to drive the boat but to make children participate and active, always demonstrating excellent professionalism and availability. Thank you very much.

July 2020

I wished I could put 11/10 for these two. Dee and Ross went beyond expectations. Dee always had a beautiful smile on her face and cooked amazing food. She was always paying attention to details and was really caring with us. Rosco did a fantastic job at making sure we were always comfortable and informed on what was going on. From the moment we stepped foot on the yacht he made us feel comfortable and at ease. He has a super friendly and relaxed manner and really made the week for us.

July 2020

I’ve had the pleasure of having some outstanding Captains and First Mates in the past, but Ross and Dee completely step changed any experience we ever had. Ross was phenomenal, from being an excellent, hospitable host to his ability to park his yacht in the smallest of spaces! He was a fantastic captain, always in control and always had a smile on his face. Nothing was too much trouble and Ross would jump at the opportunity to please the guests! Dee impressed us all, her breakfast spreads were outstanding, her lunches even more impressive and her dinners absolutely delicious. I have no idea how she made such elaborate feasts and so many items (all perfectly hot) in such a small kitchen. Her skill is truly impressive! Dee also ensured that each person’s tastes were met, tailoring our portions to our personal preferences. She also kept the yacht communal areas immaculate and provided great advice for each of the ports. These two did an outstanding job and we will be requesting them again next year without a doubt.

July 2020

What a week, these two make an incredible team and I can’t thank them enough. Let’s start with Dee. She is an adorable bundle of energy with an uncanny ability to make her whole crew feel better about themselves just by bouncing around the yacht. A “Michelin-starred chef” projected to have more insta followers than Kylie Jenner by 2021, this girl could whip a King's banquet using only a billycan and a bunsen burner. I am already so jealous of her future children's lunch boxes. Now Rosco, what an absolute 11/10 legend- great banter, made everyone feel at ease on the boat very quickly, ensured everyone had a turn at helping out- whether it was tying fenders or lowering the anchor, whilst making everyone feel at ease doing so. Super chill guy with positive energy over absolutely everything. Would recommend Rosco and Dee to friends for any future trips and would 100% request them on any future trips of mine.

June 2020

Rosco the salty sea dog was an absolute legend! Great wind awareness and sailing skills, he took the time to teach us a lot throughout the week. We had so much fun with him and Dee, both always smiling with an amazing ability to make you all feel like one big family. They make an awesome couple and a great team on the boat. Daniella went over and above with her hosting and made an incredible variety of fresh and delicious food - I was very impressed by the quality and variety and felt very lucky to have our own chef onboard, could not recommend them both enough.